New Year, New Me, lol joke

 Beanie: Beechfield via Ebay
Hoodie: Primark Men's
Bomber Jacket: Primark
Tee: Monki
Topshop Jamie Jeans
Nike Roshe Runs
ASOS rose gold watch*

001: This is my very last outfit post of 2014! It's been an on/off year for the outfit side of things. The truth is, I spend 70% of my time either in pyjama or tracksuit bottoms. I apologise but not really! My cousins are staying over this week and I grabbed the eldest (she is 13) to take these photos. To begin with they were so bad and not "bloggable" at all haha but she got it in the end! Not bad for a kid, ay?!

002: Today is New Years Eve so everyone is apparently going to wake up as a brand new person tomorrow morning? Me? Well I am going to spend more time doing what I love, spending time with family and not giving a damn what people think. I'm kidding. I'M NOT CHANGING! I hope you all have a lovely new years though. I never do much - always stay in with my parents and sister and chill. Except this year I am babysitting my cousins. I took them bowling today (I tragically non-puposely lost) and we ordered pizza hut for dinner so i'm obviously the world's best cousin right now. Go me!

003: I am having a bit of tough time at the moment but I don't want to go too into detail. I am just trying to keep strong and positive but sometimes it is hard to do that when it feels as if the world is about to end.

004: My year has ended somewhat perfectly though apart from the bad news late last night. Yesterday afternoon I went to meet someone who has meant a lot to me for five years. I will talk more about this soon but I couldn't stop smiling all of yesterday as the best things in life happen unexpectedly! I had a really lovely adventure in London. We walked around the streets of Brick Lane and Shoreditch and then ended up at St Pauls to walk around the Tate Modern followed by dinner :-)

Stay safe tonight kids and all the best for 2015!
A x

2014 Work: Ashleigh Dougherty Photography

Hi everyone! I thought it would be nice to sit down and reflect on my year in several categories. The first one will be a look at some of my work I have created in 2014. I am a fashion photographer incase you are unaware or are new to my blog. I primarily shoot menswear fashion but I may switch things up in 2015; who knows!

Bit of a selection here...

My BOYS series began in March 2014 when I was given my FMP brief at Uni. I somehow came up with a plan to shoots boys and eventually use the photographs I created and get them printed into a newspaper. When I look back at who I was and the work I was creating back then, I can't help but cringe a little as the me then and the me now are two very different people. I am a whole load more confident, more experienced and more focused on where I see myself and my work going. I have had a few knock backs in life but have always picked myself up, dusted off and tried again and that is the best way to be!

I am not going to feature all of my work as there would be a LOT and the blog post would simply go on for days on end but I have picked out some of my favourite shots. I hope you enjoy! It will be interesting to do this post again in December 2015 and compare the work my future work to my older work.. and possibly cringe some more!

The first boy I ever shot was a boy called James. I felt under a lot of pressure as this was for my Uni FMP and James was from quite a big agency. James was a dream to work with and since that sunny day in East London when we shot together, I have been so motivated in building my BOYS project and for that I thank him.

I have a publication coming out later this month in Carnival Magazine featuring my editorial titled Brighton Boy. I am incredibly proud of this editorial as I collaborated with a makeup artist who understood the brief I sent her straight away and I actually styled the shoot myself. Carnival Magazine have also interviewed me for the magazine about my work so definitely keep your eyes peeled for Issue 03 that I am featured in! Here is some of that editorial..

I then worked with a new agency and shot a beautiful boy called Cameron. Again, a dream to work with. I had my first problem in terms of my imagery of this shoot being stolen which was definitely an experience to learn from but it was all sorted in the end! I was incredibly lucky with the weather on this day as I remember it being very warm meaning I could work a lot with shadows and contrast.

Then we move onto the gorgeous Lance. Another brand new agency and probably one of my favourites! I ended up shooting quite a few models from this agency and have become quite good friends with the booker so that is always a plus! Lance was such a polite boy from the country side so it was lovely talking to him and comparing our lifestyles which were very different. I am a city girl and he is a country boy...

Next we will move onto everyone's favourite man I've shot.. Treve Stevens. Treve was one of the easiest people I have worked with in terms of he knew what images he wanted by the end of the shoot and when we compared our mood boards via the booker it turned out our ideas were completely the same. Bulls Eye! Treve I know is doing incredibly well at the moment so it was a pleasure to contribute towards his expanding portfolio.

And finally I'll wrap up this post with my two favourite shoots I shot towards the end of this year. Agaaaain, another brand new agency and two great models. I collaborated with a full team this time (MUA and stylist) and am happy to say we got some great images. Here's Wouter and Arthur...

I am so, sooo excited to see what I end up doing in 2015 with my work. I would like to see myself maybe working with even bigger model agencies, working with more teams of people regularly and maybe even begin to work with girls. I can't explain the love I have for what I do. It's been my passion since I was 14 and has seen me studying it at sixth form, college and Uni and now I am freelancing and couldn't be happier.

Don't forget to check out my website! I add a lot of video work and shoots that I don't necessarily advertise on social media.

Let me know what you would like to see more of in 2015... more boys or are you intrigued to see what my girls work would look like?

What I Got For Christmas

Hi everyone! I hope you are all having a lovely Christmas. It was our first Christmas this year where our parents were married (they got married in October) so it was very special! We have also spent it at home including Boxing Day. We would usually visit family but decided to do things differently this year. It's been super nice staying at home and not having to dress up! We have all worn Christmas jumpers (apart from my Dad, bah, humbug!) which have cleverly covered up our fat bellies full of good food, drink and chocolate.

I thought I would do a little post to show you what my family bought me. I have been absolutely spoilt this year and I am in no way trying to brag. I just personally like reading these types of posts myself and it's always nice to prolong the Christmas blog posts!

My main present was an iPad mini which I had no idea I had got! We always get a main present. I either wanted an iPad mini or a new compact camera and my parents told me we would go out to get either one after Christmas so I honestly had no idea it was sitting wrapped up under the tree! I'm so excited about it as it means I don't have to keep carrying my Macbook around with me for browsing blogs etc. Sooo happy with it!

Below are a selection of some more gifts I got from family. I got Honey by Marc Jacobs last year and it has remained one of my firm favourite perfumes so I was really happy to get another bottle this year. I also got another bottle of One Direction's perfume which I LOVE!

As you can see I got some really lovely gifts this year and I am super happy and grateful for them all! Christmas is always a lovely time of year and as much as receiving gifts is lovely, I do actually enjoy buying gifts for people and watching their faces as they rip open the paper to reveal what's inside. I got my sister personalised nutella this year which was a job in itself queuing in Selfridges for but I eventually got to the front of the queue! I also got her lots of pug related things as she's obsessed with pugs! I also got my mum some massaging slippers and some knitwear from Monki which seemed to go down well!

I hope you have all had an AMAZING Christmas!

The Weekend Before Christmas

I've not only been a bad blogger this year but I've been bad with the festive period. I've still not done anything remotely Christmasy. Winter Wonderland is out of the question! We are now 6 sleeps away from Christmas Day and I've still got 4 people to buy presents for. I've never been so unorganised in my life! I am braving the shops tonight to try and get it all done in a couple of hours. I must be mad. Wish me luck!

Video: Update! Hair, Uni, Job, 2015

GIVEAWAY! Win 2 tickets to the Hot Tub Cinema!

Hi everyone!

I have a really exciting giveaway today for one lucky person. I have teamed up with the guys at the Hot Tub Cinema in Shoreditch and they have kindly gifted me a pair of tickets to see the 1984 classic film Gremlins, Friday 5th December, 6.30pm - (the film starts at 7.30pm)!

The Hot Tub Cinema is pretty self explanatory; you watch a film whilst relaxing in a hot tub! The amazing team have transformed the former Shoreditch Tube Station into an indoor cinema as we approach Winter and all throughout the lead up to Christmas they are showing festive films. How exciting!

All you need to do to enter is fill the form in below. Bring a costume/bikini/swimming shorts, a towel, a bag to put everything in, flip flops and something warm to wear after and you're set to have a fantastic night!


I am giving away two tickets for ONE winner to watch the film Gremlins next week. I have the tickets so will email them across to whoever the lucky winner is. In order to win them, you need to fill out the little form (widget) below. Please make sure you're a follower of my blog via Bloglovin and that you follow Hot Tub Cinema on Twitter @HotTubCinema. These are essential so I will be checking! Good luck! :)

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Terms & Conditions:
Prize is x2 tickets to see Gremlins Friday 5th December 2014. This event is strictly an over 18's only event due to a licensed bar on the premises.
The winner will be emailed so please check your emails! This giveaway ends 11:59pm on Tuesday 2nd December 2014.
No alternative film, cash alternative is available.
Anyone entering MUST be a follower of Being Ashleigh on Bloglovin. Anyone entering MUST follow Hot Tub Cinema on Twitter. 
I will be checking both of these!

The prize for this giveaway is c/o Hot Tub Cinema. I have the tickets as a PDF so the winner will need to print these prior to the event. I was not paid for this giveaway. 

The Men (Boys) I Date

This year has been my year. I haven't had a relationship. I've been hurt, friend zoned people and just generally not really given a damn!

Dating apps such as OkCupid!, Plenty Of Fish and my personal favourite, Tinder, have meant meeting people is super easy and quite fun. However, almost a year later since I started online dating, I am still as unsuccessful as I was at the beginning of the year. I've had some experience in the whole online dating shenanigans now,  so I thought it would be funny for my own amusement and yours to look back on some of the "men" I have dated this year. Some are worse than others!

In no particular order...

Mr Tattooed & Pierced
This was actually my first ever date at the beginning of the year. I was incredibly nervous! We went to a pub for a drink and then to Starbucks for a hot chocolate which was nice don't get me wrong, but he was SUCH a bad person.

Mr Guitar Singer
Picture this... the guy you used to hang around with as a teenager and circumstances never allowed you to both "go there". Now picture this, it's years later and you both get into contact again, find out you're both single and it just so happens you're now both mature adults. So yeah, we attempted to "go there" and spent a couple of months seeing each other but things just never worked out.

Mr Milkshake 
Probably the sweetest guy I have ever dated. We went to a milkshake bar for our date which was chilled and I felt super relaxed around him. We then decided to go cinema but I can't remember the film (oops - I promise it was a good date!). We kept talking for a few weeks after but things soon fizzled out and it turned out he still had feelings for the EX-GF anyway. Doh!

Mr 'I Have a Good Job So You Should Automatically Fancy Me'
First things first, he had a goatee. I literally hate the in-between facial hair stage. Either grow a beard or shave it off!!! We actually didn't have anything in common so now I'm just puzzled writing this wondering why I actually ever met him but they do say opposites attract and all that. Just not in this case! We met up in London and went for a pizza which was nice but all he did was go on about himself and then thought taking me for a meal meant a ticket into my knickers!

Mr Italian Stallion
Not reeeeally a stallion but he was Italian! He was a sweet guy and we hung out quite a bit but he just didn't know what he wanted.

Mr Big Man, Small Car
Lee was a lovely guy and was a whole 6 foot 4 so it was funny standing next to him. This was another cinema date and he picked me up in his fiat 500. Do you know how funny it was seeing a 6 ft 4 guy driving a fiat 500? HILARIOUS. He wasted my time though and all he did was bitch about his ex to me. Turn off!

Mr Instagram
Hahaha still to this day I love this guy to bits but decided a long time ago he was and never would be relationship material. I find it REALLY off putting when guys follow about a million other girls on Instagram. Guess I friend zoned this one from day one!

Mr Toy Boy
A little younger than me (he was almost 20), so definitely a risk for any twenty one year old independent woman. The first date was more a hang out in his car (sigh) and the second was the cinema and I actually remember seeing 22 Jump St! However, things fizzled out and he got a girlfriend soon after. Double dater!

Mr Work Buddy
Always a bad idea to say the least but we actually started talking when I left the job we met at so I didn't have to face any awkwardness. We had one date to a local bar and he was a very good kisser!!! But that was simply it.

Mr 'Come Round & Watch X-Factor?'
OK this one is laughable now. I spoke to him for quite some time and the above question was proposed to me. Me being so bloody naive, I went round there purely to watch X-Factor but again, he thought it was a ticket to down under. Siiiiiigh.

Mr 'I Like Watching Rape Documentaries'
This guy drove down from Essex to pick me up and I thought there was a spark. This was until we reached the motorway and he started telling me how he's fascinated by documentaries to do with raping women and such. For real. I have never wanted to go home so bad before. I think it was plain obvious I wasn't interested in him as he dropped me home, without a goodbye to each other and he zoomed off right away and we never spoke again haha. FREAK!

Mr Photographer
Ok now picture this... someone who is exactly the same as you. He was an automotive photographer so I was immediately in 'OMG Mum I think I've met the right guy' denial.  I'll hold my hands up high and admit that our date was so darn sweet. We drove around London late at night taking photos of stuff including a cute walk in Battersea Park followed by walking along the Thames. I liked him so much I even let him stay at my house for a cuddle as he didn't drop me home till 3am. Everything was great and I saw him a few times after. HOWEVER..... we then had an argument. He told me how I should ALWAYS use a tripod in my work and this annoyed me so much. He was incredibly arrogant and thought he was the bees knees so I got rid of that one ASAP!

Mr Let's Hook Up When We're Bored
We'll name this one. Okay so you know there's always that one guy you end up going back to? This is Alex. There was no chemistry between us at all. It was all just very sexual. The first time I met him within minutes we was arguing and we carried on arguing throughout the whole day. I ended up telling him where to go and then a week later we were back together doing what we do best... arguing whilst hanging out. I met him one last time and put him in his place. No more! It felt great saying no :)

Mr Bar Man
He was lovely but I just wasn't ready for a relationship at the time.

Mr Postman
Not much to say about this one other than I was stupid and went to his house and ended up leaving my favourite DVD there. He was actually a postman though!

Mr Laid Back
In some ways it's good to be laid back but in other ways it's bad. I don't like being the only person to initiate a conversation and this is how it ended up being between us. The date was good and we got on great but we didn't see each other again.

Mr 'Got What I Want, Nothing Else Needed'
Probably the only one who has actually hurt me. I met this one when I was having a break from dating and I wasn't looking to date again.  He claimed (like they always do) to be different to other boys because they "wouldn't want to see a man treat their mum/sister bad so they don't treat girls bad". I've heard it all before boys! Anyway... I gave him the benefit of the doubt and we started hanging out. Things felt right between us but unfortunately he was just a liar like the rest of them and I decided to walk away.

Mr Double Date
This date was unplanned but just made sense. My friend was going out with his friend so whenever me and my friend went out we would all hang out as a group of four. He was a very attractive guy and I was so happy when I found out he liked me. We went bowling for our first date and then for a meal for the second but things went so weird after and even to this day I am still confused as to what happened. Never mind!

Mr Garden Gnome
He was short hence the nickname but he was also nice, lived local and we seemed to get on. Things just didn't progress.

This is pretty much all of the Mr's I have dated this year although I may have missed out a few?! As you can tell, I sure do pick them. I like guys who are sweet, family orientated, not flash, with a nice enough dress sense and with ambitions in life. Where are you all?!

What's the worst guy you've been on a date with like? I'd love to know if anyone tops mine!

Always remember to stay safe when online dating. It's a fantastic concept but can be dangerous if not thought about carefully. Always let a parent or a friend know who you are meeting, where you are meeting and give them an address if you plan on hanging out at their house or a car number plate if they are picking you up. I also always give someone the phone number of X guy I am meeting as you just never know these days! Touch wood, everyone I have met has been the person they claimed to be but you have to be SO careful!

Green People

Over the last couple of weeks I have been trying some samples from a brand called Green People. The sample kit doesn't seem to be available for sale but there are a range of sizes that you can buy should you prefer to start off with something small. 

Green People are a brand I have never heard of but reading about them made me intrigued to try them out. Their main and important ethic is that they DO NOT test their products on animals and instead like all brands should, volunteer on humans. The ethics and work put into the brand is fantastic as they only use organic and natural ingredients so there are no harsh and unknown chemicals going on your skin.

Let's move on to what products I tried out...

I was sent a hand cream, moisturiser, shower gel, shampoo and makeup remover. Straight away I thought as an avid hot cloth cleanser lover, I would try the makeup remover. I used it the same way I would my hot cloth cleanser by distributing the product all over my face on top of makeup and then using hot water and a face cloth to buff the makeup off. It seemed to work as well and as quickly and left my skin feeling clean. The moisturiser is a nice product to use straight after too and it's great because you can use it all over the body if you wish... obviously if you had a bigger size.

I also tried out the shower gel which had a very organic smell; something I was unsure about as I generally prefer sweet smells when it comes to bath time. 

The shampoo again has a very natural eucalyptus-esque smell which can be a little off putting but it did leave my hair feeling rejuvenated but I did need to wash my hair again two days later so there was no prolonging of washing using this.

The only sample I didn't try is the hand cream which isn't something I have ever thought to use as my hands are very soft anyway - something people always comment on!

It was great trying Green People out as sometimes it's nice to switch up your holy grail products and use samples instead of devoting money to full size products in risk of you not enjoying using them or them not working for you. I would probably buy the makeup remover full size but I find it is easier for me to purchase my No7 one in Boots. Saying that, if Green people were a brand sold in a high street drug store such as Boots, I would definitely consider trying more of their products; providing there are sample sizes available if I wanted to try out new products.

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What does it mean to be a woman?
There is no exact answer. I look around at the women in my life today and begin comparing myself. My Mother had me at twenty one years of age; the same age I am now, and managed to bring me up with very little help whilst also juggling jobs and studying. Then we move onto my Nan... a woman who has worked various jobs all of her life from factory work to caring for other people. Then there's my Aunt who has worked in banking finance for what seems like forever. All these people are generations within my family and they all have children. They have all built something from scratch but I am currently in the opposite seat. I am only twenty one years of age, a recent graduate with no stable job, no partner, no children and I am thousands of pounds in debt from my University studies. If this was forty years ago, I would be married, working in a factory with a baby on the way by now. However time, law and ethics have changed and now I am in the generation that is in the advantage of being able to have an education, make their own choices, make mistakes and learn new skills without being told 'no'. This is what makes being a woman so wonderful. We are encouraged to make our own choices and have evolved to stand on our own two feet.

I may still be at a young age, but I want to be remembered for something. I want people younger than me to look up to me for something incredible that I have done. I don't want to fall into the expected box of 'girl gets a 9-5 job, meets a nice boy, gets engaged and has children with an okay income'. I have plenty of years for all of that. I want to make more mistakes, experience more, travel the world and I will most probably have my heart broken a fair few more times.

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*This post has been sponsored by Moroccanoil, but all thoughts and words are my own.

Christmas gifts for Him, Her and Them, for under £50

It's that time of the year when everyone is starting (or in some cases finishing!) their Christmas shopping but never know what to get Grandad Jim or Aunt Sissy. I thought I would put together a little Christmas gift guide which has something for every one. Even better, every item I have chosen are from one website and are all under £50 each.. making shopping this Christmas that little bit easier.

I chose to shop around at Urbanara which is a fantastic homeware brand offering luxurious and high-quality homeware products at affordable prices. I love nothing more than shopping around for things for my bedroom from makeup storage to bed linen which happens to be my absolute guilty pleasure.

Urbanara have just released their Christmas section on the website which I totally recommend if you are looking at shopping around in one place for every one. They offer gifts for Her, Him and even the kids.

So, let's talk about my top 6 picks...

You can find all of the above items on their Christmas section.

→ I absolutely ADORE this notebook which is bound in real leather and comes with a traditional fountain pen. It really reminds me of Tom Riddle's diary (only fellow HP fanatics will understand!), and it also comes in black!

→ Everyone needs to keep their hands warm in the colder months but every girl NEEDS cute mittens. These remind me of mittens an eskimo would wear... super cute.

→ I don't know about kid's cushion as I could totally see this owl printed cushion sitting on my own bed however this makes a perfect present for a girl who has just got her own room and is looking to make it a little more grown up.

→ I never ever know what to get men such as my dad but this bath robe is perfect. It's soft, fluffy, luxurious and comes in a few different colours and sizes.

→ You can never go wrong with buying candles at Christmas and vanilla is just one of those must-have scents for every room!

→ Finally, who doesn't love a cute teapot whether you actually use it to brew tea or just use it for display. I'm sure any tea loving woman would love this.

And there we have it! I know it's only mid November, but I got super duper in the mood for Christmas when I read Grace's latest blog post featuring some really festive bits you can decorate with in your home. 

Very Party in Style Event @ The Oxo Tower!

This week, I was one of the lucky bloggers who was invited along to the Party in Style event with and Cosmopolitan Magazine at the stunning OXO Tower in London.

I met the lovely Lorna from Studs and Dreams outside Waterloo Station and we took a short walk over to the event. There was a short queue but once ticked off the guest list and handing our stuff into the cloak attendant, the party began! We was greeted by the team at Very and told to pick out our favourite outfits for the photographer to shoot us with. We then did some vox pops video work in which we were asked for our party tips. Here's the official video if you want to see me awkwardly talking to a microphone and TV presenter haha!

 We then watched the catwalk showcasing the collection by Sam Faiers which I LOVE. Soooo many sparkles and sequins in rich blues and pinks. I really want my Christmas dress from the collection!

I put together a little Vlog style video so you can virtually come along to the event and see the evening in action. The catwalk is in the video too which is why I never got any photos of it!

 Lorna from Studs and Dreams, and me.

Primark shoes

Huge thank you to Very for inviting me! :)